As Time Goes By
 
 
Phillip Hong
October 12, 2010
 
Friends: When was the last time you had said something was a waste of your time?
 
Have you ever been frustrated to the brink of physical altercation for something as simple as traffic on the expressway?
 
How many times within the past working week have you sworn, cursed or insulted anyone either mentally or through your vocal chords because you believe they were a waste of your time?
 
Friends, this proves that you need to calm down.
 
I don't intend to cause any offense in making that statement, but it seems that everyone has such a quick, hurried definition of time that there seems to be none left to savour the moment. Any moment.
 
Contrary to popular belief, no one is out there with the sinister intention of actually wasting your precious living moments as a busy human. Contrary to your definition of time in your commute, transit agencies and slower drivers aren't betting on your punctual demise. But it certainly seems like it, and I don't blame you.
 
I spent my high school years on the run - out on a bus before sunrise, still on a bus after sundown. And much of my time has been spent in waste, if I am to ever follow the definitions of many in this hectic metropolis.
 
I recently returned to a major stop in my former commute - the somewhat old Newmarket GO Bus Terminal - a product of suburban magic opened more than a couple decades ago. In its heyday, it served Greyhound buses in addition to several GO routes that had a vehicle depart at least once every ten minutes.
 
The small town I headed to for secondary education was far and infrequent in transit terms, so I spent hours sitting in a waiting room, waiting to transfer to a waiting bus. The waits weren't really too bad, but I'm not as impatient as some.
 
If I missed a bus, I had to wait for two hours.
 
If I had an extracurricular activity, I had to wait two extra hours after the activity had ended before I saw the sight of a bus.
 
Much of this waiting was spent in the snow, and or in the dark.
 
At its heyday, and if my schedule matched the provincial government's assigned timetables, I would get my ticket punched and be on my way to the south of York Region. I spent many a day here and many a night, from as early as 6 in the morning till 11 in the night - without ever noticing.
 
What has kept me from physical altercation with our hard working mobile public servants?
 
Patience. I was going to get there come rain or shine, and if there were problems with time management I would adjust accordingly so there was less stress.
 
Ten more minutes of your day, friends, is beneficial if it's the difference between potential unprovoked violence and a fair amount of satisfaction.
 
Phillip Hong, a resident within suburban Toronto, is a constant tourist. Check out the interesting experiences of his journeys on The Travelling Briefcase.
   
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