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Frank Cotolo
January 10, 2019 |
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His name is still Wendell Pencilmark and he claims to be one of the best psychiatrists in the field
today — and some think tomorrow. Wendell is known to as Dr. Shrink. He has agreed to answer questions
people have sent him about their emotional problems and we continue to feature these Qs and As
intermittently.
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Q: I feel depressed and forlorn but I can't understand why I am more forlorn than depressed.
Any idea why?
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A: It has to do with your mother, who was probably more depressed than forlorn. You, being the
object that depressed her, cannot stand being more depressed than forlorn because of that. You feel
if you are more forlorn then you can get your mother's love at last.
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Q: I'm a habitual addict. I make a habit of every addiction I get. What do I do about this?
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A: By definition, acting in a habitual manner is an addiction in itself. You become addicted to your
habits due to a repeated occurence in your life, which has to do with your mother, father and how
they treated you when you displayed joy in doing anything. In other cases, I have seen women handle
the problem by going into the nunnery. Men have tried that, too, but a nunnery won't accept a man.
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