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Sound post-death advice about Wills
 
 
Frank Cotolo
September 11, 2014
 
It's very important that when you die you leave behind a Last Will and Testament. After all, you can't take it with you, or you can if it is buried with you but then why write it in the first place?
 
You write a Will in the first place because you want certain people to receive property you want them to own, as opposed to having them auctioned in a Sheriff's sale or having the Sheriff take them home for himself (and maybe his family).
 
Stuff that was your stuff before you died may or may not have street value but then again it is according to the value of the street where you live (I have often walked down that street before...). But personal value is more important than the sale value of stuff because people remember you most based on the stuff you owned.
 
Take James Caravan, a man I knew who owned a sterling silver bow and arrow set. He was always showing everyone his sterling silver bow and arrow set and everyone knew him as Jimmy, the guy with the sterling silver bow and arrow set. He had no family but he had a lot of friends, especially after he showed people his sterling silver bow and arrow set. James loved his sterling silver bow and arrow set and when he died in a hunting accident his will allowed his sterling silver bow and arrow set to be his legacy, going to someone he was sure would care for it and cherish it.
 
Had Jimmy been without a Will, his sterling silver bow and arrow set may have gone to someone who cared nothing about a sterling silver bow and arrow set. Someone like me, for instance.
 
Not everyone has a sterling silver bow and arrow set (if you do have one and know me, please do not leave it to me in your Will) but you may have other property that you feel only certain people deserve to have given to them when you die.
 
Perhaps you should do an inventory of your possessions and begin to decide who would get what items. Do this even if you feel well and there is a low risk of death at the moment (of course, remember that sudden death kills more people than any other kind of death).
 
Make a list and when you are happy with what you have willed to people, see a lawyer to draw up the papers. Tell the lawyer not to draw on the papers, just draw them up. Many Wills have been contested due to drawings on the printed words that make the writing difficult to read. Try to find a lawyer that does not like to doodle.
 
Once all that is settled you should begin to think about writing the other part of your death paperwork, that is, your testament. In a future installment I will discuss what you should accomplish by writing a testament and how you can get away with saying the most god-awful things about people you hated when you were alive.
 
Frank Cotolo can be found hosting the talk and interview programme Cotolo Chronicles. You can send him an e-mail at this address: frank@148.ca.

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